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我的五年计划

我不是一个每年都做计划的人,而且,我是从19年才开始定人生第一个年计划。那么迟的原因是我知道自己不会完成,那既然不会完成,我为什么要做一个年尾讨伐自己的计划呢?近几年,我陆陆续续的找自己,说来好笑,上天如此的眷顾我,不愁吃穿,我却嫌自己活得不够好。这种不好不是能否买更奢侈的东西,过更‘过分’的生活,而是人来一生(我只相信人只有一辈子),总要干点啥吧。不一定是大破大立,至少你对得住自己。那么问题来了,我要先把自己找到。过程是折磨的,这种‘疼’不要命,但‘手尾长’,而且难度高,特别我身边有一位在中学已经稳稳当当知道自己是谁的人。人最怕比较,我的状况在比较下更显焦虑。身边很多人爱我,也有朋友觉得我自找烦恼,但烦恼是真实地,不解决我也过不去,经历了四五年的找自己运动,真的在20年底,我活得越来越明白。真的的理解目标有什么用,真心愿意去实行,而且附加着愉快的心情,应该没有比这个更好的感受了。


2021-2025计划

  1. GR 年收益超 £100万

  2. 单板LEVEL 6

  3. 体重控制在 45kg ~ 48kg

  4. 能够弹10首歌

  5. 读50本书

  6. 仍然拥有我的好朋友们:3位

  7. 爱情生活:保持和现在一样

  8. 自己的网站上已经有很多原创文章,继续大放厥词

  9. 学习很多小东西,例如:泡咖啡,学香水艺术,学皮毛珠宝知识,化妆等等

  10. 能够在业余时间帮助别人

  11. 旅游同时拥有非常多回忆

  12. 看不同类型的电影

  13. 看音乐剧


MY 5-YEAR PLAN


I haven't done any annual plan before. It was bullshit for me as I knew I won't implement it. Therefore, what is the point to beat myself up annually. I am a lucky person as I don't need to worry about money and living. However, I lost my life purpose. I kept thinking: " Is that it? I only come here once (I don't believe after life.), is that all?" I am not trying to improve my material life but I need life purpose. Losing life purpose and don't know who I am was horrible. For me, the feeling wont' kill me but torcher me bit by bit, specially my husband knew it when he was a teenager. Even though some friends believe I am overcare but I know I need to figure it out. In 2019, after all the readings and trials, I started to plan. Doing an annual plan was a start for me, especially I did it with pleasure. Plan of 2020 is mostly done. In end of 2020, I decided to do a 5 years plan, again, I am happy with my ideas as I am starting to know who I am and my life purpose's forming.


2020-2025 Plan

  1. GR revenue reaches £1 million

  2. Level 6 of Snowboard

  3. Weight Maintaining: 45kg ~ 48kg

  4. Can play 10 songs by keyboard

  5. Read 50 books

  6. Maintain my 3 close friends

  7. Love Life: as now

  8. Lots of writing on thehappymaggie.com

  9. Learn small things and knowledge: coffee, perfume, make-up, jewellery etc

  10. Charity: able to help people during leisure

  11. Travel around the world, having lots of fun memory

  12. Watch different types of movies

  13. Watch musical



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Maggie
Maggie
Feb 21, 2021

@ken, 有你和李开复先生的功劳😊

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Ken Yong
Ken Yong
Feb 21, 2021

目标清晰,合理,不过分,加油!😁

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